The Seven Deadly Sins of Business Networking (and How to Avoid Them)The seven deadly sins are transgressions that stymie spiritual progress. But what if these sins were applied to business networking? Follow these tips to make your next networking endeavour a heavenly experience. Pride - Arrogant or disdainful conduct or treatment; haughtiness.
This sin has been called the most deadly of all the deadly sins. And for good reason. Whoever has pride has an excessive love of themselves. At a networking event, they tend to ignore people or they ignore your business needs. This person is full of self-importance and will talk endlessly about her products, her services and how happy her clients are with her. Greed – An excessive desire to acquire or possess more than what one needs or deserves, especially with respect to material wealth.
In business, we all want to do well financially. Yet, when one is greedy, this can impede on our ability to form meaningful relationships. At a networking event, a greedy person is difficult to spot. He tends to ask great questions and praise your expertise in a given area. But what he is doing is picking your brain to understand who’s in your network. He knows what your needs are but is afraid to connect you with the person in his network because he thinks you’re going to steal a great opportunity from him. I call this greedy person a horder. Envy - A feeling of grudging admiration and desire to have something possessed by another .
Ah envy. Otherwise known as jealousy, or the green-eyed monster. At a networking event, this person resents your achievements, traits, status, abilities or situation. She thinks that you are luckier, more attractive, smarter or better than her. Often, she tends to insult you with a snide remark such as, “Oh, you think you’re better than all of us because you sold a company for millions of dollars. Let’s bow down to you.” She is jealous of your successes. Wrath - Intense anger; inappropriate (unrighteous) feelings of hatred, or revenge.
You’ve met this person before. He’s angry that the networking event he just paid $20 to attend didn’t produce any clients or immediate sales. Or, he’s angry that a vendor he hired recently for a project not only did a shoddy job, but also has the nerve to show up at the same event as him. Lust - To have an intense or obsessive desire, especially one that is sexual.
Business networking is all about gaining new professional contacts. It’s not about asking people out on dates or finding out what their favourite sexual position is. You’ll find this person at every networking event – she’s too horny to focus on business issues, yet too stupid to realize her mistake. She’ll start asking if you’re married, her eyes will drop down, not only to see the name on your nametag, but to also see if there’s a ring on your finger and she’ll make comments on how gorgeous your smile looks. Gluttony – The desire to consume more than what one requires. Over indulgence in food or drinks.
Who else has met someone who has gotten drunk at a business networking event? I have. He got the free drink ticket at the registration desk, the free drink ticket from the person who admitted she doesn’t drink and found one of the tickets lying on the floor. On top of that, he has bought a few more rounds of suds so he can loosen up. His manners have made a quick exit and he’s louder than the music that’s blaring through the speakers. Sloth – The avoidance of physical work. Idleness, wastefulness, laziness.
Part of networking is meeting people, but the real work comes from how well you follow up. I’m amazed at the number of people who collect my business card, promise to call me the next day and I never hear from them again. How rude and inconsiderate, yet many professionals don’t realize that following up means the difference between having a thriving business and just scraping by. Remember the networking virtues of modesty, generosity, sharing, kindness, humility, moderation and enthusiasm when you work a room. You will gain a reputation for your networking graces and not be remembered for your networking sins. Leesa Barnes, The Schmooze Coach, helps consultants, virtual assistants, professional organizers, coaches and solopreneurs avoid cold calling by developing a fearless networking plan. Leesa is author of "Schmooze Your Way to Success: 9 Fearless Networking Tips for the Shy, Timid, Introverted & Just Plain Clueless." Go to http://www.schmoozeyourwaytosuccess.com/ecourse.html and sign up for her free 8-lesson ecourse called "From Clueless to Fearless: Secrets from the Schmooze Coach." Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/ |
